If you get tired of using your mouth, it's totally OK to switch things up. Kendra adds: "Ever hear a girl say that she came hard? That's probably how it happened."ġ2. Unless she specifically tells you to stop while she's coming, Kendra recommends holding her hips in place while swirling your tongue around her vulva and fingering her. Some people really love the sensation of a dam against their pubic area." Plus, better awkward and safe than less-awkward and sorry. Lee explains: "A dental dam doesn't have to make it awkward. Since you can still get STIs from oral sex, porn performer Jiz Lee, 35, recommends using a dental dam or even plain Saran-wrap (go with the non-microwavable, non-porous variety though). No, dental dams aren't that complicated and they won't kill the mood. Noses, cheeks, and chins can make delicious pressure."ġ0. Lean in with your face so that the receiver can press into you and grind as much as she likes. To communicate that, Lisa Kan, Betty Dodson-certified Bodysex instructor and Orgasm coach, recommends you "get in there and do it like you mean it." Kan adds, "Use your whole tongue, the tip, even the underside to play with sensation and direction. Kendra, 26, says she finds it super-hot when someone is really enthusiastic and clearly wants to go down on her. Act like you actually want to be doing this. Sydney recommends simply having the dildo inside her to give her the feeling of fullness while you're going down on her. You don't have to be active with it (aka thrusting the dildo while going down on her) if you or they don't want to. Sydney explains: "People with penises: You would not want all your stimulation just on the head of the penis would you?" Most people with penises would probably agree that no, they would not. Sydney, 45, says that licking around the vulva can be just as important as paying attention to the clitoris. The clitoris is not the only part of the vulva you should care about. And if you're going to insert fingers, cut your nails!ħ. Again, it's probably a good idea to discuss doing either one beforehand so you're not casually twisting her nipples off her body or putting in too many or too few fingers. Victoria recommends putting a few fingers inside the vagina while you're licking or simply adding some nipple stimulation into the mix. You can totally eat with your hands (sorry). However, I have also encountered women who have been clear on needing extremely direct stimulation in order to achieve orgasm." Plus, it couldn't be easier to ask someone, "Do you like direct clitoral stimulation or nah?" before you start going down on them. Victoria explains: "For many women, their clit is just too sensitive and it will feel so intense that you'll need to stop. Victoria points out that not everyone wants their clit pushed like an elevator button in rush hour, so it's important to ask them if they do. Direct clitoral stimulation is not for everyone. Your nose can also be used to provide stimulation as well, so don't be afraid to give that a shot.ĥ. For example, if you're going for direct clitoral stimulation, try cupping the clit lightly between your lips while moving your head around.
Victoria,33, host of the sex podcast Livin' and Lovin' in NYC, says that using your whole face and not just your tongue can be incredibly helpful. So don't jump straight to the clitoris, mmk? Think about it like how you use utensils at a fancy restaurant-outside to in. Remember that female orgasms are a build-up and take prodding and prying before hitting the good spot. In other words, don't jump right to the main event when you have some appetizers to eat first. Start from the outside and work your way in.
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